All Comments on 'Chastity and Ice'
by sublocked
- 31 Comments
6 months without an erection, medically, the penis is dead. Erections keep the blood flowing, keep it alive. No erections means no blood. No blood means castration.
Blood flows in the penis when not erect and being in chastity assuming the device isn't tight enough to crimp the vessels wont hurt it.The real issue is not ejaculating that long isn't good for the prostate which could be taken care off by milking the prostate via massage.
Lack of copulation has been documented as leading to prostate cancer.
I think you should quit your job and use that time to write more. It's amazing that all these other comments deal only with worrying about your penis. No one takes in the full implications of your story and your lifestyle. If they went on they would probably say, "I'm the boss in my relationships."
I'm of the opinion that forced chastity is a significant step in a relationship,(though the story itself WAS tagged with non consensual/reluctance). The sub in the story seemed to make a big issue of the denial, but he did have options. (see Vulcan's suggestions in comments). Sidebar...why bother with the hole in the backyard??? LOL
As the writer of this story, I am shocked at some of the responses in the comments. This was my first submission here and I had expected some more maturity and acceptance of my kinks. To suggest that I am a sick individual and that I need "to end my life please" is itself sick and that person needs help, or perhaps I could say, "back atcha baby."
Now to answer some questions. The "hole" was necessary so that there was a sense of impasse and hopelessness. The fact that the key was never in it is irrelevant.
The chastity lifestyle is very real. It starts out as consensual, and there is always a modem of consent, although dominance increases at the expense of consent over time.
Those that say the penis falls off without blood are ignorant of biology. The penis always has blood circulating within it. When arousal occurs, MORE blood comes in and is hindered from escaping, thus, an erection. The penis does not die if it never becomes erect. When freed of the chastity device, it becomes erect...believe me, it becomes erect. I myself have been locked for almost 8 years now, with releases about once per month. It is a female led relationship, and I am kept at the ready for my wife.
Yes, I could get a locksmith, but the embarrassment of that would be too much for me I'm afraid. I do dread the day that I get in a car accident and end up in the hospital though. But I figure, at that point the chastity device will be the least of my worries.
I think your story was well told. It was interesting how the husband found sme sort of solace in his new, forced, version of making love with his wife. However, I find it repugnant in any and all relationships where the pleasure of one is found in the continued and persistent denial of the other. I simply can't see how love can exist in the context of sexual denial of one partner. But if it floats your boat...
hoping your wife doesn't end up in a coma for a year while your poor neglected penis not only pines for freedom but for his lost leader.
Dudette, you have to grow a thicker skin if you're going to continue writing (which I hope you do) because criticism comes in several flavors: Shrill and juvenile, blunt and ego bruising, and surprisingly helpful. Something about the Internet and anonymity seems to invite drive-by potshots and electronic road rage.
I gave this story a 4 just as I did your other one, despite my total lack of understanding of the whole chastity/dominance role reversal thing and no mention of the wife caring enough to check to make sure the poor sap's captive weinie wasn't suffering bed sores from months of close contact with the metal. Had I read this one first, your Crossing the Rubicon story would have made more sense, at least regarding the wife's motivation for punishing him. (infidelity) Serves him right.
I too fail to see what provoked the ire of some commenters. As far as femdom stories go there are much more extreme variants, including say castration, forced bisexuality, and so on, not that this is at all in that league. Please do not be discouraged, it was a well written story and I for one find it interesting when the woman takes some initiative in these sorts of relationships. Besides, this story has a good rating despite some of these comments. Keep writing!
I find it absolutely amazing at the ignorance and lack of knowledge people have regarding chastity, my husband was until recently in chastity for 3 years. The benefits to both of us were fantastic. My husband revelled in the heightened emotions and feelings he had for me, in return I adored the attention and worship that accompanies the chastity lifestyle, he encouraged me to cuckold him which I have been doing for the past two years...he gets as much pleasure from this as I do, even getting me ready for other men, choosing my underwear etc. I released Gary from chastity two weeks ago as I now know that the only way he can cum is from masturbation as that is all he has had for 3 years, if I allow him to slip it in me he is soft within two minutes as I ridicule him and compare him to my lovers. This lifestyle is very real, very deep and very rewarding in many ways for all parties. Oh for the record, Gary has completed the iron man contest 3 times, and until recently was a kick boxing regional champion so there is also no stereotypes to this lifestyle, its just a choice that is made. x
Unlike the other two, I liked the story. Sure you can remove the device, cut the lock, whatever...but this is a story. Quit being so literal. If you don't want to read about controlling dominant females, then look up other rosa-blanca.ru.
Personally, I wish my GF was as imaginative and controlling as the wife in this story. We play orgasm denial, but it's on the honor system and I am allowed to cum when she says...Currently I'm two weeks denied into a six week period she set. I could cum anytime I wanted to, but what would be the fun in that?
Great story! I hate to sound dumb but i don't get what she said right at the end. 5 more weeks. Was that on top of the six or just five. And what did he say? What is si....?
This story is so far from anything that could ever turn me on. And quite unbeliveable.
It lacks everything that resembles reason.
Yes, you are correct on all counts. Just a writing experiment.
I would do that for my girl.. but she should force me to dress and act like a woman 24/7 she I was locked up. ;) more please
The cage is a toy. Any idiot removes it, without a key, in under 60 seconds with a simple tool found in everyones house. So he was jacking off all the time. She just didn't know it. But the comments were great! I loved the "Amazement" one that claimed her super athletic husband had been in chastity for 3 years. And he was a kick boxer and a tri-athlete! I wonder what the sponsors said when the Doctor examined him before those events? "Get out" comes to mind. And the claim that she was cuckolding him all the time just made me laugh! I guess in the anonymous world of the internet, anybody can and does say anything, no matter how crazy it may seem. Kinda like this crazy story. He's married to a controlling, manipulative woman that doesn't care about him at all. All she cares about is her own games. Time to divorce the bitch. But stay caged? Don't make me laugh. 1 star.
I wanked myself silly reading this - what a super story - well done!
I think you've looked at my stuff too! Let the idiots babble.this was really good.you should also submit it to bdsm library!
Dumb story. Believe me no pussy is worth that. I promise that she would be giving me the key in 5 minutes flat. No marks, no proof, just a little hot sauce on a pussy and bang, there is the key. Believe me, NO PUSSY IS WORTH BECOMING PERMANENTLY IMPOTENT.
Ignorance continues to amaze me. Believe me, a penis can get erect again after 6 months in a chastity device. It doesn't just die. That is just absurd and it exposes the commenter's ignorance.
Signed,
Author with Personal Experience
I want that too be me. Any femdoms who read this please contact
It's so unrealistic so ramble on about the "unbreakable" chastity belt that totally inhibits orgasm.. Less than 5 mins with a hacksaw or boltcutters would have any the belts I'm aware off, they are f*cking toys. Since in this story he's an unwilling wearer he'd just take it off.
Loved the story, the mindfuck with non-key holding frozen hole, the bondage, the FLR aspect. Eloquently written it had me captivated from start to finish.
I’m surprised that Sublocked even takes the time and trouble to answer the sour and bitter feedback. If it doesn’t float your boat, look for stories with big tits, blowjobs, or whatever takes your fancy and accept there’s many different flavours to enjoy sex.
It’s great there’s a great variety of kinks that can be read about here, fantasy or not.
It was great when he found the box empty. I was sorry when she had deleted a whole week from the penalty period just because he was nice. I wish that she had stayed in character and, instead, had now produced a cane, specially acquired, so that he could atone for his winter outburst, in several stages.. I am glad that the cage did not chaff or cause soreness but it would have been nice to have an account of his dealing with a particularly throbbing erection, using bags of frozen peas while rolling in considerable discomfort on the floor. The diary was a good idea, and the handcuffs. Handcuffs should always be included when buying cages, so that his wanks, henceforward, will all be conducted by her alone, while he has his hands cuffed behind his back. This system, using the diary and the handcuffs and the cane will bring him to a delightful and deep state of obedience, and very little of any bad behaviour will fail to attract her notice, to deal with later. Could he be required to place himself into bondage straps once a month, in such a way that the final strap, which he will not be able to manage, can easily be tightened by her? Instead of using the cane right away, at his monthly appraisement, she reads from the diary, having stripped almost completely, and inserted herself under his bonds, so that he can arouse her. She continues to read his sins from the diary, and he works hard to please her, hoping that this will make a difference when she does finally pick up her cane. After a most pleasurable orgasm for her, the caning begins. To prevent his natural tendency to lower his buttocks as much as possible to avoid stokes, even curling himself to be inaccessible, she decides that he will present himself for each Stoke at her command of, Tip Toe. After each, he calls out the number; One, Miss....Two, Miss, and so on. His training could continue with mastery of housework, and skill from home tutoring on such things as dressmaking and embroidery. If he is thought suitable to make further progress he might achieve accepting her right to come and go as she pleases, even to the extent of being away from home for several days at a time, then, upon her return, is effusive in his welcome and not inquisitive, and only accepts what she has to say about her absence without attempting to hear more. He will no doubt look for clues as he hand washes her knickers and sending other wardrobe away for dry clean.
This indeed a state that few can reach. It is enormously satisfying, to feel the turmoil, and not demand answers.
Wow! But from the description of the device it's locked with a padlock. In the early days before he gave in, a trip to a hardware store for a pair of bolt cutters would have cut the lock off.
But it's a fun story nonetheless. I liked it.
Stupid. He could remove the cage at any time with a simple pair of pliers. Dump the stupid bitch.
Not a bad story or plot. But bolt cutters would have take off the way to easy. But that being said, if I would have found that Buried box was empty with her lying about it the whole 6 months, I’m afraid I would had a hard time not beating her or at least divorced her.. Another chapter would be nice..
I went to the hospital the next day and after filing assault charges against the bitch, I had the tube removed. Then headed to a divorce lawyer while the police went to my soon-to-be ex-wive's to have her charged with assault
Beyond cruel.
Get a dremel. Suffer a little as you cut yourself out.
Leave.
Divorce, along with a lawsuit for unlawful restraint and torture.
Failing that, violence.