Progressive Femdom Toilet Training

This article is intended to help dominant women with easing into toilet training of their submissives through a gradual progression. Through smaller steps along the way, the training can be taken as far as the dominant woman and the slave would like. This process can also help to push reluctant submissives further along to further improve their submissiveness and respect for their dominant woman.

There are many theories behind femdom toilet training, in terms of its being used to cement a submissive's position by having the slave serve in a way that some components of society consider to be degrading, but also in it being used to show respect to the dominant woman, by honoring all that her amazing, feminine body naturally produces. It is a great way for a submissive with a fetish for dominant women to get into subspace, and especially great for those with an ass fetish, once you get into "full" toilet training.

Starting slowly can be beneficial, and each step can be a building block towards the next. These steps do not need to be done in order, and skipping steps is fine based on the comfort level. If you use teasing and orgasm denial with your slave, this can be very helpful in moving your slave through the steps, as being horny can make the slave more highly malleable and interested in the activity of serving as a toilet. Of course, some of the more advanced levels flip this on its head, with training the slave to serve despite a lack of sexual desire, which is used by some mistresses to really push slaves further into subspace and lead to more advanced service.

There are essentially two varieties of toilet training, corresponding to the two types of bathroom activities. Number one, or piss, watersports, golden showers (GS), or champagne, is the first level, and can also be called "limited" toilet training. Number two - shit, scat, hardsports, brown showers (BS), or caviar - is the more advanced level, also known as "full" toilet training.

This progressive training guide is set up by activity, and it is not intended that you should finish all number one activities before moving on to number two!

The first step for golden is getting your slave accustomed to your golden gift. First, you would have him put his face in the toilet after you pee and before you flush. Next, you can do the same and flush while his face is down in the toilet (but not in the water). After this, you can have him go down on you after you pee, but before you wipe. The next steps depend on how squeamish you might be. You can go right to a golden shower on his body and then face, or you can go in a container, such as a cup, and then dump it on him or into his mouth.

More advanced watersports techniques involve either using a funnel to force the liquid into his mouth, or having him drink your gift right after he has cum. If you are in a cuckolding relationship, you can bring both activities to the next level by having him experience watersports from both you and your boyfriend.

Hardsports can be done with a similar progression, through first have him get accustomed to your brown gift by having him put his face near the toilet water after you have gone but before flushing. Similarly, you can flush while his face is near the water. After that point, your options depend on how squeamish you are and what equipment you have available. You can use dirty panties that have been freshly stained to gag him with, and then pissing into it or pouring piss into it. If you have a toilet chair or box for training him, you can put a disposable plastic container under it (or squatting over it while it is in the tub or shower) to catch your brown gift and them force him to smell it. You can have him transfer it to a plastic bag and put it into his mouth, telling him to bite down. Depending on the strength of the plastic or whether you've placed any holes in it, he might advance his training quickly this way!

Another method involves putting your poo into a sock or panty hose and using it as a gag through which you run your golden gift. More advanced hardsports techniques parallel those for watersports, such as techniques using a large funnel or dental gag to force him to take your brown gift into his mouth, or having him consume your gift right after he has cum. And if he is a cuckold, forcing him to receive hardsports from both of you is the ultimate form of submission.

I hope these ideas are helpful for taking your toilet training domination to the next level. Keep in mind that these all involve simple, basic bodily functions, to which society has attached taboo labels. Don't be afraid to be creative!